This is key:  appreciating all serendipities. There is a time for champagne, and a time for carrot juice.  There are times for weddings and births and big trips, for new jobs and promotions and dream homes.  And there are are times for putting on sunblock and walking the dogs.  When you can see all such events as serendipitpus proof that you are cherished beyond comprehension, you’ll live a charmed life.  And know it.  And own it. — Victoria Moran

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1.  Wear a signature scent or perfume…  Smell is one of the most powerful senses.  It has the ability to recall memories that have otherwise been forgotten or to create strong bonds and emotions.  Wearing a signature scent is a way to leave your footprints in the sand of time.  I always tend to gravitate to fragrances with hints of lavender, vanilla, patchouli, and lilac.  These are scents that agree most with my body chemistry and that others tend to notice when I’m around.

2.  Learn a different language… Learning to communicate in a different language can be quite fulfilling and can bring on a great sense of accomplishment.

3.   Be well groomed… I am a firm believer in the famous mantra, “When you look good you feel good.”  When my outside appearance matches how I already view myself, I find myself whistling all day.  I love keeping my skin clean and clear, hair neatly styled, my nails manicured and pedicured, my legs silky smooth, and my eyebrows perfectly sculpted.

4.  Love like there is no tomorrow… Our next day or even our next breath is not guaranteed.  Spend your time hear on earth finding pleasure in the big and small things.  Show those you love how much you care often and when you can, slow down and smell the roses.

5.  Invest in pretty, feminine tea cups and saucers… One of my favorite indulgences and activities is sipping on a warm of herbal tea while reading a book, writing in my journal or chatting with a good friend. To me, tea has the ability to sooth the mind and relax away a long day.  Tea drinking on its own is very therapeutic and I love to drink it from dainty cups to make the experience more enjoyable.

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6.  Simplify your life… Simplifying your life is the best way to maintain your elegance and charm.  Stay organized by keeping your schedule and reminders in a leather bound calendar.   Maintain a tidy living space by cleaning a little every day as opposed to one large cleaning per week or month.  Keep your everyday hair and makeup routine simple, and let go of people who do not enrich your life.

7.  Master a recipe and make it your signature… It brings me great joy when I cook a dish for friends or family that they absolutely love.  I am not a master chef, but I have taken the time to identify my weaknesses in the kitchen and focus on my strengths.

8.  Be genuinely warm to others… I have found that when I have a bad attitude, people appear stand-offish towards me, yet when I let my happiness physically manifest itself through kind smiles, warm hugs, and genuine compliments, I attract more positivity.

9.  Create your definition of chic… Develop your own personal style that will be remembered by others.  Do not fall victim to each and every fashion trend, but Invest in quality clothing that will stand the test of time.

10.  Let him treat you like a lady… Chivalry is not dead!  I promise that it is far from it.  Many men still find enjoyment in opening doors, puling out chairs, and showering us with flowers.  It is equally as gratifying when we let gentlemen be gentlemen and graciously accept these small but important gifts.

I will like to know what things you do to infuse more charm into your life.  Leave a comment and lets discuss.